Coherence and Congruence in the New Moon: close cycles and prepare for the Year 2026.
There are moments in life where everything seems to stop. Where an inexplicable discomfort settles in your chest and, even though you can't name it precisely, you know that something is changing deeply within you. You are living one of those cosmic moments: a New Moon that astrologers consider the most powerful of the year, in November —month 11 with vibration 9—, and just before closing a powerful year 1 in 2026.
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Betsy Jiménez
11/20/20253 min read
Coherence and Congruence: The Pillars of Your Transformation
Before talking about rebirth, we need to understand two fundamental concepts that are at the heart of every authentic transformation: coherence and congruence.
Coherence is that internal logic that connects your ideas, principles and actions. It is the backbone of your stance towards life, the invisible line that unites what you believe with what you defend. When you are coherent, your decisions make sense within the framework of your values, creating a clear and defined path.
Congruence, on the other hand, goes deeper. It is the total harmony between what you think, feel, say and do. It is authenticity in its maximum expression, that state where there are no masks or contradictions between your inner and outer world. It is living from your truth, without cracks.
Both are essential to go through periods of transformation without getting lost along the way.
The Silent Death: When Everything Seems to Collapse
This period we are living through doesn't feel like a simple cycle closure. It feels deeper, more visceral. It's like a silent death, that process where something in you needs to die so that another version of you can emerge.
Think of it like a snake shedding its skin or like the cellular renewal of your body. Every cell renews itself, every particle of you is transforming, and although the process is invisible, you feel it. That discomfort that dwells in you is not your enemy —it's the signal that you are evolving.
The New Moon of November 2025 (November 20, New Moon in Scorpio), marks a turning point, a portal of introspection where the old must be released to make room for the new. And yes, it's uncomfortable. But deep down, something in you knows it's okay, that you need to go through this.
November: The Month that Prepares Your Rebirth
November, with its energy of month 11 but vibration 9, is paradoxical by nature. While 9 in numerology traditionally marks endings and closures, this year feels different. It's not just an ending —it's a preparation, a gestation—. It's the last breath before the great leap.
We are closing a complete year 9, which magnifies this culmination energy. But it's not a definitive death; it's rather a frequency change, like when you go up an octave in music. The note is the same, but it vibrates at a higher, more refined frequency.
2025 to 2026: The Quantum Leap
And the new vibrations of the year 2026 are already being felt... which numerologically is a year 1, (2+0+2+6=1). 2026 will bring an energy of new beginnings, independence and personal leadership. It's the return to yourself, but in an elevated, more conscious, more aligned version.
This transition from a year 9 to a year 1 is the complete cycle of numerology. It's returning to the beginning, but not the way you used to return —you arrive transformed, with all the accumulated wisdom, ready to create from scratch but with mastery.
The energy of the approaching year 1 speaks of willpower, self-mastery and magnetic renewal. It's time to take the reins of your life with full awareness of who you are and where you're going.
Final Reflection: Embrace Your Discomfort
If you're feeling that discomfort, that sensation that something is dying inside you, allow yourself to feel it completely. Don't avoid it, don't anesthetize it. That discomfort is your compass towards transformation.
Maintain your coherence by reviewing if your actions are aligned with your principles. Cultivate your congruence by making sure that what you say, think and do are one voice. In this skin change, in this silent death, the most authentic version of you is being born.
Rebirth is never comfortable, but it's always worth it. Trust the process. You are exactly where you need to be.
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